Mate thankyou for help and advice from today i am not going to look back at my life i have not gone mad with drinking and got to say feel a bit better, one day at a time this year ,all the best mate ps, live near Lincolnshire
@Andy g Andy, if you need help or a shoulder to cry on I will drive all the way or half way if you are serious about helping yourself?
Theres some things you can't help yourself with, if your near the place I was, you can't get out on your own, you need that helping hand to pick you up a bit and point you where you need to look and it's still hard after that!
Seriously, with what you regularly post, you are either taking the piss, which hurts people who give their time and energy trying to help or you seriously need help and healing?
The guys who do this day in day out have my utmost respect, it's a physical trade and I do it, enjoy it and get pleasure from finishing good job, but I wouldn't want to do it day in day out, I am sure I woud get better and find the easiest way to lay on and perfect the timings etc, but still grafting is grafting, I graft in many other ways as well, and it gets harder every year, you either need to be working for your self and earning tidy money, working on the side and happy with what your earning or do agency or similar and plod on with little worries?
Plenty of guys offering advice here, hard work is theraputic in itself, but if you have serious problems in the backround or serious mental issues in the foreground, then only you can address any of them and move forward in your life, I don't know what else to suggest in my experience, if someone offers you a helping hand up and you turn it down then you are a part of your own destiny, I am not going to offer you a rope, but I am offering you a helping hand up!
I can't offer much more as I am still suffering myself and struggling to be back where I was, which is Mr Positive, nothing is a problem, I will sort it out, now everything is hard work, motivation to start a day is hard work, never mind the 16hr days 7 days a week which I loved doing, building my business up, but after that the goodwill and great work should speak for itself?
I am certainly not the quickest, but I leave a job the best I can I may not be the best in any given trade, but I am a perfectionist (so I am told by others and customers) so I plod on and do the best I can.
Listen to the advice you are being offered by peoplem who understand and care, please.