An update..........I must be the luckiest fella alive......I got a Building Control Officer that was (i) helpful (ii) listened (iii) was practical...... a rare beast indeed after discussing the interpretation of the regulations in relation to the required work/type of property he agreed that we were doing all we could to achieve the U values and that we had met the criteria of "Reasonably Practical".
End result, a compromise to meet the required U Values and new regulations, increased insulation in loft, between floor to ceiling joists, and ground floor joists, render where DPC has been installed with Izonyl to 20mm thick and over skim with limelite, cold faced external walls, batten and install insulated/vapur check plasterboard @ 38mm and overskim with gypsum, party walls, render with Izonyl and skim with Limelite, existing ceilings (Lathe and lime plaster removed) foil backed 12.5mm plasterboard and gypsum skim, any other "Cold Spots" insulated plasterboard, finally, overskim remaining lime plaster walls with Lime Plaster.
Out of interest to forum users I will post up some before and after pics and if anyone with similair issues wants to contact me feel free and I will help where I can.
Thanks for the input from everyone who contributed.