there are some good ones and like you say they do it all or can do im lucky I work with some very clever people I do work for around 20 different trades people but still lots of my own I don't even price most of them of the traders I do the job give them the bill and get paid straight away we have a trust over many many years
Had exactly the same recently. Apparently he’s had that much extra work from the work I gave him that it’s completely changed his life.
Best just letting it go. It’s all negative energy.
Just tell him how you feel about the situation, then tell him to get ta f.ck. bet youl feel better for it , or a least at the time.
You have got a point but sometimes you just have to act.
Ye agreed tell him politely what you feel so it's a lesson for him for next time then block him and let life or someone else deal with him
I’d make it uncomfortable for myself because it’s guaranteed I’ll tell him how I feel then bump into him at the merchants or something, awkward.
I’m starting to think if I carry on being so nice to everyone that’s half the problem, I’m being too friendly and people are now f**k**g me about with payment and literally anything because they think I’m easy going. I’m on a bit of a mission at the moment to get all my money rounded up (even if it means harassing and upsetting people) getting a taste for being a bit more abrupt because it seems to be the only language some people understand.
Just have them in your head when you’re skimming away! That’s what I do! And before you know it you’ve finished and you’re packing up having won every argument and thoroughly shamed them!
No I already do that, I imagine scenarios of how arguments unfold in my head. Sometimes I go back in time and imagine settling the score with someone who wronged me years ago lolJust have them in your head when you’re skimming away! That’s what I do! And before you know it you’ve finished and you’re packing up having won every argument and thoroughly shamed them!
f**k**g mental. I suffer quite bad anxiety issues myself so can totally blow things up in my head, always worst case scenario!
Lol! I wouldn’t want to shoot anyone but in my mind I have the most perfect/ eloquent/ precise etc wording for how they wronged me, and how I’m so awesome etc that it really makes them question if they should really go i living etc etc etc.....Haha I'm glad I'm not the only one who does that.. I argue with people in my head even if I'm getting on with them, play games with myself,
There are a handful of people I'd happily see shot though from my past.
Some people treat kindness as a weakness, sad but true.
Absolutely! Too many people
Agree , make your own luck, and don't have someone else skim money of your efforts. I include the banks in that one .
One of my first memories was in primary school, primary one. The teacher went around the class asking everyone what they wanted to do when the grew up. The boys all wanted to be soldiers, firemen or astronauts. When she came to me I said I wanted to have a shop, she seemed puzzled and asked what kind of shop ? I didn't know so she asked why I wanted to have a shop. The answer was " because it will be my shop "I don't begrudge anybody making money/profit and even builders can make money off me. As long as I am happy on the money then all is well
Iv just always wanted to be my boss.
It's the only way! Picked up a small contact ,years ago now, on the first day turned and all the workers were waiting for the boss to open up so we could get going. As he got out his motor his first words were " morning troops " . Didn't even start that day, just told him It wasn't for me and walked, f.ck that sh.t .
Same mate, I'd last two minutes !