Stevieo
Royal Spin Doctor
Why not ask for cash and if the person is too old and scared to go to hole in wall. Why not offer to take them and stay with them while the get it for you. Suits both parties then.
Some people may only know the outside world from the news and newspaper headlines and it may scare the shite out of them to do internet banking and go to a cash point.
Because Dom is always chasing builders who march old people to the bank....there's nothing wrong with it per se but people don't want the question mark when aunt Ethel tells the family what you've done.