Don't take offense , you hadn't replied and people get carried away with the banter ,
So you want just the solution , there's my problem , I just can't help it but its on overload and here it comes so please forgive my apparent rudeness its certainly not meant to be cocky or arrogant
1 I use some lime instead of Feb , to be short I won't bother with explaining
2 I use sharp sand , may add some soft for top coat depending on the grit
3 as you have rightly pointed out your so called normal render mix ( guessing , as you didn't answer my original post ) is good to get the job done with no problems so I'm not doubting your ability to plaster , in my fathers day if you were caught putting soft sand into the mix to ease floating you were off site
3 your get out clause would only be clay or dirty sand , unlikely from wickes
4 I've forgotten what the question was
5 oh yes ,, how to repair ,,, here we go
6 I would not repair I would stabilize ( with what I confess I have no knowledge ) and would Tyrolean , the proper way ( I won't bore you )
Hope I haven't p.as.d u off , if I work for another 40 y I still will be caught out at some point