theres reasons not to use fairy but i cant remember them exactly...think its something to do with cracking but its not recommended although it works really well as a plasticiser...puts air in the mix, gives it body, without it your mix would just slide off your hawk and youd prolly give up on rendering before youve even started...like nicksey says, plasticiser is dirt cheap, even waterproofer/plasticiser (rendamix type stuff) is only about 6 quid for 5 litres...
dont tell church you been usin fairy tho... :-X