So Mrs Jones wants the box room plastering and you decide you'd rather do the hall? That's not how it works now is it. She tells you which room or rooms you're working in which are all in her house. She tells you that you can't start before say 07:30 because the kids are getting ready for school, she needs to get the dinner on at ..... and so on.
There are undoubtedly certain freedoms or choices available to you on domestic that aren't on site work and vice versa.
I'm not being argumentative for the sake of it. You can argue semantics and wrap it up anyway you like. Working on sites or working on domestics is a choice about preferences. Employed or self employed are one and the same thing just approached in a different way.
Site or domestic, employed or self employed, while you are working you are working for someone else.
no, I never did say it worked like that.
your making unrealistic points.
you don't just go in and skim what you want, you are contacted to give a price to complete a job, provide a service.
they don't set the terms of pay or the date, time they want it done, YOU are telling them the price, YOU are telling them when you are available, YOU are in charge of how the job is completed, if they don't agree or like it they take their custom elsewhere.
you don't drive into the local garage, tell the mechanic you want a service and your brakes doing for £xxx, on this certain day at this certain time, he doesn't work for you from 09.30 - 11.30 while he carries out said work, he is providing a service, just like a plasterer does.
customers do not set any rules on domestics, the only thing they decide is what area they want working on and whether they are going to use you
working for yourself is just that, you pay yourself, you organise the job, you collect materials, you decide when you carry out the work, as soon as the customer agrees to that price which you have set, you tell them how it's going to happen, not the other way round.
site work is the complete opposite, they set the price (you like it or lump it) they tell you what time they expect you there, they tell you when you will be paid, they provide materials, this is not providing a service, this is working for someone else self employed or not.